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The Five Stages of Liberal Grief for Obama

There are five stages in the grieving process from Denial to Acceptance. American liberals are now moving through their own five stages of dealing with the decline and fall of the myth of Obama. The last time they had invested this much in a politician was the Kennedy Administration, yet there is no assassin's bullet to explain the fall of Camelot for them here. Instead they have to come to terms with the reality of Obama's failure.

And this is what their five stages look like.

1. Denial 

Obama is the Messiah. He is perfect and can do no wrong. He will usher in a new era, make conservatives and Republicans irrelevant, and assemble the unstoppable machinery of a socialist state that will care for everyone. Progressive legislation will be instantly passed and implemented without delay. The Iraq War will just vanish. All the other wars will too. The world will love Obama, and so will America. The oceans will stop rising and even the most radical anti-war activists will learn to love their country again.

2. Anger

The damn wingnuts are obstructing Obama! Why do we even allow opposition parties? They're all violent and dangerous bigots. We should put them in jail before they do something. The whole teabagging movement is a bunch of fat Wal-Mart shoppers funded by a vast right wing conspiracy! We are going to roll right over them and nothing is going to stop us! Under Obama's leadership we're going to smash the right. We're going to pass laws, send Limbaugh to jail or give him a heart attack! See Rachel Maddow's latest tweet. Olbermann is right. We have to take the fight to them! Under Obama's leadership, we'll win!!!

3. Bargaining

Obama is a bit weak, but when he sees we're behind him, that will change. Okay so we might lose some Senate seats. The public is stupid. They don't appreciate Obama. He's just too good for America. They keep talking about jobs, when Obama is giving them green jobs, which are much better than regular jobs, because the planet likes them better. A single green job is worth a 1000 of their stupid old redneck jobs. But the natives just don't get it. So we'll lose some congressmen. Most of the ones we'll lose are conservative Democrats anyway. We don't need them. The party will be purified. Of course we'll probably have to make some bipartisan coalitions with liberal Republicans, but the important thing is we're still moving forward.

4. Depression

Where did we go wrong? Obama was a great candidate, but now he's letting the right wing walk all over him.  He couldn't get much done even with a supermajority. And it's going to be even worse now. The war is dragging on, the economy is terrible and everyone hates us! Why can't Obama do what Olbermann and Paul Krugman are telling him to do? The netroots raised all that money for him, and now he's just ignoring us. Are all politicians just liars and crooks who work for the military-industrial complex? Is there no hope even for a half-black man who references Jimmy Hendrix? Are we just doomed to be slaves in the belly of a vast corporation, like the one my dad wanted to me to work for, even though I kept telling him that my degree is in Media Philosophy?

5. Acceptance

Obama lied to me. He lied to all of us. He didn't really care about any of the things, he said he cared about. I just feel so used. We'll never get any real reform in this country because everything is in the hands of the big corporations. Maybe Hillary would have been better? Or what about John Edwards, he had great hair and solid progressive credentials, and then we dumped him for a half-black man who kept telling us everything would be alright if we just believed in him. John, come back! We still love you. I don't care how many illegitimate babies you made! Oh to hell with this. I hate politics. I'm erasing my DailyKos diary and going backpacking in the Andes.

Coming out of a cocoon of propaganda isn't easy. And those most affected by it are not the rank and file, who have enough contact with the real world to figure out that things are going south, long before the loyalist cadres do. The average Russian knew the Soviet Union was impoverished long before the mid-level party members who thought that things were great, because their lifestyle was above that of the average worker. The average German soldier knew the war was lost, because his battalion kept retreating. All the while the Nazi elite were still listening to Hitler promise that the war would be won with superweapons.

Leader-worship is one of the more devastating propaganda cocoons because it teaches faith in a man, raising him up to a superhuman stature. Just believe is the message. Bypass the rational parts of the brain and let the madness of the crowd make you feel uplifted. Experience the sense that history is being by you in this moment. Stop thinking and start worshiping.

But once people stop thinking, it becomes very hard to start again. Reason is a choice. Entire cultures remain hopelessly backward because they devalue thinking. Because of that they cannot do something as simple as recognize contradictory information. If you tell them two mutually incompatible facts, they will not recognize them as such. America has not gotten that bad just yet, but it's no thanks to the people on top, who would very much like to see all Americans reduced to that intellectually vegetative state.

That is why politicians strive to convince people to believe in them, rather than to listen to them. Ideas and arguments can be rebutted, but there is no rebuttal to faith. The great trick of charismatic figures, real or unreal, is to bypass minds and go directly for souls. Rather than winning the battle of ideas, they convince their listeners to emotionally invest in them, in order to form a relationship with them. And once there is an emotional investment in a politician, contradictory information will be emotionally repulsed, rather than rationally debated.

Obama's success lay in convincing people to make that identification. And an emotional identification can only be broken through an emotional reaction. Which of course leads to feelings of betrayal, anger and guilt. Naturally his best successes were with lonely and emotionally vulnerable groups, twenty-somethings lacking stable bonds and single women. Functioning in the role of a celebrity, he created a parasitic "I'm in the spotlight, and you're out there supporting me" bond with his followers. Such bonds are not results oriented, but exist so long as they fulfill the emotional needs of the followers. A sense of betrayal kicks in when the followers sense that the man in the spotlight no longer stands for the things that made them want to identify with him. He has betrayed them. And they wonder if he was ever really true to them.

This false faith substitute generates a great deal of emotional intensity and wilful blindness. It is of course also doomed. Because people are only human. And making a man into an icon means that a wake up call will come sooner or later.

The media, the most visible element of the left, is still struggling to reconcile the fact of Obama's failure, with their image of him. So they are forced to argue that Obama did not fail America, but rather that America failed Obama. That the idol is still unbroken, but that we did not live up to his standards. We were too ignorant, too unfaithful and weak-willed. The Fuhrer did not fail Germany, Germany failed the Fuhrer. It's an old narrative which shows just how far people will go to avoid dealing with reality. They will toss aside the country, rather than the man. Even though they only supported the man because he promised to save the country. But the politician who demands that loyalty be transferred from the country to himself personally, is using his egomania to destroy the very values he claims to be working in defense of. That is the sort of man whose wife would say that she was never proud of the country, until her husband's own personal success.

Blinded by the light from Chicago, the media went into what history will describe, as the largest and most comprehensive propaganda campaign in America on behalf of a single man. And still blinded by the glare of that light, they cannot understand why what worked in Chicago does not work in Washington D.C.

(note to readers, due to a speaking engagement in California this weekend, there will be no further updates until Saturday night)


  1. A speaking engagement in Calif!
    To whom, and where?
    I don't see any announcement.
    Is Lemon abandoning post, also?

  2. Lemon will be here moderating and maintaining the blog, which she helped design and create.

  3. Kathy from Kansas21/10/10

    Great analysis, Daniel. And I'm grateful for your explanation! It's always bugged me how Obama was perceived as "moderate" and "a uniter" when his actual record showed him so clearly to be the opposite. I could never understand how people didn't see it. But your article helps me understand the phenomenon a little better.

  4. mindRider21/10/10

    "note to the readers" Why should a speaking engagement keep you from writing during your flight? ;-)

  5. All that will be missing is the Friday update.

  6. Anonymous21/10/10

    He is Shabtai Zvi of America. Didn't Time or New Yorker have him walk on water on their cover? But then, only 1% of the people of this earth think, the rest just go with the image and empty slogans. Don't let fact of his past confuse the slogans of today.

  7. mindRider,

    During flights I hope he keeps his eyes peeled for terrorists.

    DG's posts have become the commentary Highlights of my day!
    I was giving him a hard time, but gaps *are easier when known in advance.
    No doubt, he speaking on something important out here in Calif... can't help but wonder what it is. probably not a public thing.

    I'm not baiting Lemon, nope.


  8. Anonymous21/10/10

    What...no Friday afternoon roundup? Major bummer!


  9. Anonymous21/10/10

    The libs are forever stuck in stage one of the Kübler-Ross model.

  10. I've arrived safely in Cali, without being diverted to Istanbul. Sorry about the lack of a roundup, but those are hard to do ahead of time as they deal with current events and traveling to another city and making arrangements locally means there's only so much time available

    Lemon is running the blog now, but it's all about "teamwork" in the end

  11. It's all so mysterious.
    Obama has arrived in Frisco. He has a big Thingy going on there.
    We don't know exactly where in Cali DG is.
    Could the two be in any way connected?
    Should we worry about Cooties? I'm old enough to remember. "Watch out for Cooties. You could catch them!"

  12. They are miles apart, so no worries.

  13. Parts of article
    By DARLENE SUPERVILLE (real name!)
    AP Writer.

    "...Obama's campaign tour has stopped in Los Angeles for a rally... at the University of Southern California on Friday, ...also reaching out to Latino voters on Spanish-language radio.
    ...At every stop, he's REMINDING AUDIENCES of THE PASSION THEY FELT when they helped elect him in 2008, and URGING THEM TO KEEP THE FEELING ALIVE."

    Too funny!

    L.A. Now: "Obama touched down at LAX on Friday and was whisked by helicopter to USC... The chopper was set to land at the L.A. Memorial Coliseum... After USC, he was to take Marine One to Bob Hope Airport in Burbank".

    Lemon, if Daniel went to LA you better check his eyes for glaze and stars when he gets home.
    The thought of Obama's chopper whirling overhead is creepy. It could be dropping mind-crippling gasses.

  14. Cooties...they have too much pride to jump on Obama's head. Obama might be scratching his head but not because he has cooties lol.

    I though the comment section was closed entirely until Saturday night. If I knew Lemon was at the helm I would have posted something.

    I tend to argee with anonymous. Obama's supporters are stuck in stage 1. Most of them are young and this country, especially under his rule, has become a kinder-archy.

    (Yes, I know kinderarchy isn't a word, but I did see it once. Boy oh boy does it apply to Obama).

  15. Daniel is right in his prescription for dealing with terrorists and bandits.

    However Iran will not be sufficiently deterred by MAD; for the simple reason they are willing to sacrifice millions of Muslims in order to destroy Israel and the West. The flagellation parades and suicide bombers are clues.

    The only thing that will stop nuclear proliferation is the collapse of Muslim regimes starting with Iran.
    This could be done mostly from the air, with special ops on the ground. Oil export facilities, government offices, military, religious centers, and electrical power should be taken out.

    The Iran regime would then collapse. In the resulting chaos, we should give anarchy a chance, and prevent the emergence of a strong central government.

    Eventually we'll have to depose Pakistan and N. Korea; the rest will either cooperate or they should also be deposed.
    What we need is another Alexander or Odysseus. Start with Turkey and sweep through most of the Islamic realm.


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